THE NATURAL CONNECTION
THOUGHTS FROM MS. JEAN:
The Natural Connection has changed greatly from 2006 to now, from a small, part-time program to a now relatively large, full-time program. I have learned a lot about how to work individually with each horse, trying to help them physically, mentally and emotionally as they recover and grow in my program.
It is important to note that each horse has it's own history, it's own story, it's own needs. I have learned to listen more to them, and give them the opportunity to live in a more natural and peaceful environment. However, I have discovered that many horses have lived the "traditional" way for such long periods that changing them over to no shoes, no bits, 24/7 turn-out, can actually be detrimental to them.
So my journey has continued to adjust to the needs of every horse, every day. I spend a great deal of time developing an exercise, dietary, supplemental and medical program to fit the needs of each and every horse.
The goal is to have a happy and healthy horse, which leads to a happy and healthy rider and horse combination.
Thank you to each and every one of you that has found a place in your heart for these horses. Your continuing support and belief in this program is paramount to it's success.
A well rounded, individualized plan for each horse and rider enables growth at a balanced and goal oriented pace.
Ultimately, my philosophy is based on cultivating and developing the relationship between the horse and rider.
The Natural Connection has changed greatly from 2006 to now, from a small, part-time program to a now relatively large, full-time program. I have learned a lot about how to work individually with each horse, trying to help them physically, mentally and emotionally as they recover and grow in my program.
It is important to note that each horse has it's own history, it's own story, it's own needs. I have learned to listen more to them, and give them the opportunity to live in a more natural and peaceful environment. However, I have discovered that many horses have lived the "traditional" way for such long periods that changing them over to no shoes, no bits, 24/7 turn-out, can actually be detrimental to them.
So my journey has continued to adjust to the needs of every horse, every day. I spend a great deal of time developing an exercise, dietary, supplemental and medical program to fit the needs of each and every horse.
The goal is to have a happy and healthy horse, which leads to a happy and healthy rider and horse combination.
Thank you to each and every one of you that has found a place in your heart for these horses. Your continuing support and belief in this program is paramount to it's success.
A well rounded, individualized plan for each horse and rider enables growth at a balanced and goal oriented pace.
Ultimately, my philosophy is based on cultivating and developing the relationship between the horse and rider.
PLEASE READ OUR POEM:
TO THE HORSES AND PONIES...
Now that I'm home, bathed, settled and fed,
All nicely tucked in my warm new bed,
I'd like to open my baggage,
Lest I forget,There is so much to carry -So much to regret.
Hmmm...Yes, there it is, right on the top,
Let's unpack Loneliness, Heartache and Loss,
And there by my perch hides Fear and Shame.
As I look on these things I tried so hard to leave,
I still have to unpack my baggage called Pain.
I loved them, the others, the ones who left me,
But I wasn't good enough - for they didn't want me.
Will you add to my baggage?Will you help me unpack?
Or will you just look at my things -And take me right back?
Do you have the time to help me unpack?
To put away my baggage, to never repack?
I pray that you do - I'm so tired you see,
But I do come with baggage -Will you still want me?
~ Author Unknown ~
All nicely tucked in my warm new bed,
I'd like to open my baggage,
Lest I forget,There is so much to carry -So much to regret.
Hmmm...Yes, there it is, right on the top,
Let's unpack Loneliness, Heartache and Loss,
And there by my perch hides Fear and Shame.
As I look on these things I tried so hard to leave,
I still have to unpack my baggage called Pain.
I loved them, the others, the ones who left me,
But I wasn't good enough - for they didn't want me.
Will you add to my baggage?Will you help me unpack?
Or will you just look at my things -And take me right back?
Do you have the time to help me unpack?
To put away my baggage, to never repack?
I pray that you do - I'm so tired you see,
But I do come with baggage -Will you still want me?
~ Author Unknown ~
NEW ADDITIONS TO THE NATURAL CONNECTON FAMILY AND UPDATES
Between 2015 and 2016, The Natural Connection has moved twice. Leaving Aldie was hard, but we found a beautiful farm, more of a ranch, out in Fauquier County. We are full in boarding and have many wonderful new boarders and horses that have joined the Natural Connection program.
Boarder additions:
Chronos and Larin
Ben and Mary
Spectator and Patrice
Pictures and info on these great additions will be posted soon!
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Kiddo - Kiddo suffered from a bowed tendon due to underslung heels, and has made a miraculous recovery in 2013. Laura and Kiddo will be under-saddle by the fall!
Dakota - Dakota suffered from some facial edema's as well as from his mysterious hind end lameness, which he came with back in 2012. However, with hard work and dedication, Dakota is now moving successfully into lower level dressage work and getting stronger by the day. The strength training has helped his hind end lameness to subside!
My-Ty - Ty suffered from a severe case of EPM, which was only diagnosed this year, 2013. He has gone through treatments with Paranex R, as well as 2 rounds of Toltrazuril with DMSO. He is responding remarkably well, is trail riding, building strength daily and has a massive personality coming out. I am excited to see what next year will bring for Ty as he will experience life without pain.
Rolex - Rolex suffered from mental burn-out from being an upper level dressage horse. With a new diet, and new expectations for work, and regimented exercise program, Rolex has made fantastic strides towards recovery in just 3 months being with Miss Jean.
2015 UPDATE: The Natural Connection has found a long-term home out in Fauquier County!
2015 Laura and Kiddo are trail riding off site and working on Intro Level Dressage!
2015 - After 3 years of leasing, Rhona now owns her equine partner!
Our new facility offers boarding, training and lessons.
Rubber, Sand and bluestone footing!
2015 - Desperado (AKA Mustang) and New Mommy Kat!
Kat lunging Mustang
Training is going well, Kat and Mustang are quite the brave pair!
Kat and Mustang rest after a long days work
Milton and New Mommy Rhona!
2015 - Ben and New Mommy Mary!
2015 - Hollywood and New Mommy Tina!
Look at how nice his coat looks!
Working hard on ground work...
Cowboy and New Mommy Diane!
2015 - Diane and Cowboy have a very unique bond...
Working on jumping
Promise and New Mommy Cheryl Watson!
Cheryl and Promise in a hunter lesson
Meet Rolex! Now owned by Harry Simmeth!
2015 - Harry and Anne go trail riding with Rolex almost every weekend!
Jack and New Mommy Cathy Suddarth!
UPDATE!!!! Rolex now boards here under the ownership of Harry Simmeth!
I am happy to say that Rolex will officially be a trial riding horse for the rest of his life! Congratulations Harry!
I am happy to say that Rolex will officially be a trial riding horse for the rest of his life! Congratulations Harry!
Snap and New Mommy Sam!
Ms. Jean's Newest Rescue, Pat Com
2013 Ty learning long and low
2014 Ty and Lessee Lisa!
2015 - Ty and Star showing great progress in learning to get on the bit!
Ty has had a miraculous recovery throughout 2014!
Let's track his progress. Ty in January 2013.
Ty's famous grandfather, Pleasant Colony
Dakota, happily owned by Sarah Parmeter
Sarah and Dakota, 1 year after rehabilitation...2013 will be a great year!
Dakota is developing beautifully...the Parmeter's should be proud!
Duke, happily owned by Brittany Waller
Duke's weight gain and muscle mass has changed drastically in the last 8 months.
Brittany and Duke working on Dressage with Jeffrey Lord
2015 - Duke is a versatile horse, working on dressage, jumpers, western and trail riding!
Leilani, happily owned by Carol Biang
Miss Jean's favorite 2 girls on their first jump course together!
Joe, happily owned by Whitney Reese
Whitney and Jo have a special bond!
You never know what you have...
I was looking on-line, back in 2011, for a horse to buy for myself, not the program. 2001 was the last time I had competed on my own horse. It was my turn. So, I found an ad on Craigslist for a former show-jumper in need of a good home.
Lukas, a gangly, out of shape, 20 year old thoroughbred, came in on trial for one week back in September of 2011. At the end of the week, I decided to send him back. My intuition told me that this horse had a lot more going on than just being a little unfit and a little underweight. When I called, the gentleman said please, make me an offer, he needs the good home you can provide. So I made a minimal offer and he accepted. Why did I make the offer? Not sure, but I knew it was the right thing to do.
Here is what I discovered was wrong with Lukas:
1) Melanomas
2) Anemia
3) Colonic and Gastric Ulcers
4) Trust issues
5) Unfit
6) Arthritis
7) Imbalanced hooves
8) Poor immune system
9) Colic issues
10) Lethargic
11) Underweight and lack of appetite
In Lukas's first few months here at Miran Farm, he was very weak and uninterested in life. He spent much of his time with his head down, standing still and alone. It was after I had started the new diet listed below to build up his immune system, coupled with a one time steroid shot, recommended by my veterinarian, that the changes started occurring.
In my 40 acre field designated only for Natural Connection horses, there is a stream that separates our holding paddock from our beautiful rolling hills and pasture. For 4 months, Lukas stayed in the holding pen, on his own accord. Then, the day after Lukas received his steroid, we were shocked and pleased to see him come to life. He cantered across the holding paddock, jumped the stream and ran into the pasture to join the herd for the first time.
I created a personalized dietary, medical and physical program to help Lukas become healthy again. To my surprise, his body started to fight the melanomas, with them bursting from his tail every day. The care was astronomical, but worth every moment. The arthritis got better every day with regular work. My farrier continually has been working on his hooves bring them back to a more balanced state. His ulcers are under control with the help of a medication. And the anemia is not a problem anymore because his body is no longer fighting as hard as it used to.
Here is his specialized food daily:
-Alfalfa/timothy pellets with 11/6 pellets
-Red Cell
-Baking Soda
-Ranitidine
-Previcox
-Omegatin
It is amazing how one horse launched me into a whirlwind of research and a learning curve that has not only helped him become the amazing horse he is today, but also help other horses in the program with some similar issues.
Lukas came in right before Barney passed away. Barney, being the founding horse of the program, also had many of these issues from his life as a performance horse. It seemed that Lukas came in to not only take the place of Barney as my equine friend, but also my equine teacher.
Every horse has a purpose in my life and I strongly believe Lukas, for however long the time period will be , came to me for a reason. And I am forever thankful he is here.
UPDATE: AUGUST 14, 2012.
Lukas was suffering from a Lymphangitis attack, and shortly thereafter, also large hemorrhage and anemia, resulting in my having to put him down. I knew what I had to do, as he had been suffering already for so long in his life, and I promised him, that if he were to tell me he needed to go, that I would allow him to go. So I did. I walked him across my large field, to his already waiting grave. I threw my arms around him and hugged him and told him I was so sorry and that I loved him. I handed him to Fareed, who graciously held him as he was euthanized. I walked through the field to go sit on my tree, the tree I always sit on when I have had to put a horse down. I call it my "reflection" tree. I sat there for hours. I loved him so very much.
In reflection, I asked myself why I put myself through these terribly hard situations. And the only reason I could come up with was that God put me in this position so I can bring a glimmer of happiness, provide a family, love, and less pain, even if for a short while, to horses that are in need.
Ironically, every horse I bring in for myself, ends up being a horse in a tremendous amount of need. Then through our journey to health and happiness, the medical issues, mental challenges and physical struggles, the process always opens my eyes to new ways to help horses. Actually, what really happens is the horse says to me..."try this, and if that doesn't work, keep trying." Lukas was a great professor, and now, my new horse Ty, will be stepping up to the plate.
Lukas, a gangly, out of shape, 20 year old thoroughbred, came in on trial for one week back in September of 2011. At the end of the week, I decided to send him back. My intuition told me that this horse had a lot more going on than just being a little unfit and a little underweight. When I called, the gentleman said please, make me an offer, he needs the good home you can provide. So I made a minimal offer and he accepted. Why did I make the offer? Not sure, but I knew it was the right thing to do.
Here is what I discovered was wrong with Lukas:
1) Melanomas
2) Anemia
3) Colonic and Gastric Ulcers
4) Trust issues
5) Unfit
6) Arthritis
7) Imbalanced hooves
8) Poor immune system
9) Colic issues
10) Lethargic
11) Underweight and lack of appetite
In Lukas's first few months here at Miran Farm, he was very weak and uninterested in life. He spent much of his time with his head down, standing still and alone. It was after I had started the new diet listed below to build up his immune system, coupled with a one time steroid shot, recommended by my veterinarian, that the changes started occurring.
In my 40 acre field designated only for Natural Connection horses, there is a stream that separates our holding paddock from our beautiful rolling hills and pasture. For 4 months, Lukas stayed in the holding pen, on his own accord. Then, the day after Lukas received his steroid, we were shocked and pleased to see him come to life. He cantered across the holding paddock, jumped the stream and ran into the pasture to join the herd for the first time.
I created a personalized dietary, medical and physical program to help Lukas become healthy again. To my surprise, his body started to fight the melanomas, with them bursting from his tail every day. The care was astronomical, but worth every moment. The arthritis got better every day with regular work. My farrier continually has been working on his hooves bring them back to a more balanced state. His ulcers are under control with the help of a medication. And the anemia is not a problem anymore because his body is no longer fighting as hard as it used to.
Here is his specialized food daily:
-Alfalfa/timothy pellets with 11/6 pellets
-Red Cell
-Baking Soda
-Ranitidine
-Previcox
-Omegatin
It is amazing how one horse launched me into a whirlwind of research and a learning curve that has not only helped him become the amazing horse he is today, but also help other horses in the program with some similar issues.
Lukas came in right before Barney passed away. Barney, being the founding horse of the program, also had many of these issues from his life as a performance horse. It seemed that Lukas came in to not only take the place of Barney as my equine friend, but also my equine teacher.
Every horse has a purpose in my life and I strongly believe Lukas, for however long the time period will be , came to me for a reason. And I am forever thankful he is here.
UPDATE: AUGUST 14, 2012.
Lukas was suffering from a Lymphangitis attack, and shortly thereafter, also large hemorrhage and anemia, resulting in my having to put him down. I knew what I had to do, as he had been suffering already for so long in his life, and I promised him, that if he were to tell me he needed to go, that I would allow him to go. So I did. I walked him across my large field, to his already waiting grave. I threw my arms around him and hugged him and told him I was so sorry and that I loved him. I handed him to Fareed, who graciously held him as he was euthanized. I walked through the field to go sit on my tree, the tree I always sit on when I have had to put a horse down. I call it my "reflection" tree. I sat there for hours. I loved him so very much.
In reflection, I asked myself why I put myself through these terribly hard situations. And the only reason I could come up with was that God put me in this position so I can bring a glimmer of happiness, provide a family, love, and less pain, even if for a short while, to horses that are in need.
Ironically, every horse I bring in for myself, ends up being a horse in a tremendous amount of need. Then through our journey to health and happiness, the medical issues, mental challenges and physical struggles, the process always opens my eyes to new ways to help horses. Actually, what really happens is the horse says to me..."try this, and if that doesn't work, keep trying." Lukas was a great professor, and now, my new horse Ty, will be stepping up to the plate.
LUKAS PASSED AWAY DUE TO LYMPHOSARCOMA (CANCER) ON AUGUST 14, 2012.
Hank (New Lessee Kelly!)
Amber (Timber Hitch)
Sunshine (New Mommy Debbie!)
Kiddo (One Classy Kidd) (New Mommy, Laura!)
Kiddo, far right, 3 months before I got him...he was much worse when we picked him up...
Kiddo, June 2013, learning to trot and canter again
2015 - Kiddo could not be more relaxed in his new home...
Aztec's Way...AKA Taz (New Mommy Carol!)
Taz can jump too!
Carol and Taz, Dressage 2013!
Whisper (Bars Mocha Whisper) AN AMAZING STORY! United with her original mom!
Teddy Bear (New mommies - Julia and Debbie)
Gunner has been rehomed to Pennsylvania!
Annie Pie Pony the BLM Mustang! (New mommy - Krista)
Packer (AKA the blindman Packman) (New mommy - Dawn)
Pea-Eye - From ranchwork to therapeutic riding (New mommy - Helen)
The Marriott Ranch, where my natural connection with horses started...
A photo of a horse that looks just like my Chico...
SPECIAL THANKS TO THE FOLLOWING INDIVIDUALS FOR YOUR CONTINUED SUPPORT!
AMAZING NEW DONATIONS and CONTRIBUTIONS FROM NATURAL CONNECTION MEMBERS!
Fareed Miran - For letting Barney and I come back home to Miran Farm, and allowing the Natural Connection to move and grow at this great facility...And years down the road, we must thank you again for being so open-minded and willing to have a non-traditional program exist in peace at a traditional facility...
Lancet Boyer - Monitary donations to help purchase fly sprays, ear covers and anything else to keep the babies comfortable during the bug season, volunteer hours
Kelly Smith-Moore - Countless volunteer hours, showing up at 7:45am to help Ms. Jean feed on Fridays, regardless of weather...what a trooper and a great help.
Liberty Seaford - Bits, tack trunk and other miscellaneous items that are very helpful to the program.
Carol Biang and Cowboy Ben - Carol and Ben were amazingly grateful after the 2 huge snow storms in February of 2010. Shortly afterwards, they provided Miss Jean with an amazing gift of brand new all terrain tires, that would allow Miss Jean to get to and from the barn safely to be sure all horses would be cared for. Thank you so much for this amazing donation and we will use these tires for many winters to come!
Cowboy Ben - Western saddle donated to the program at a tack swap! The money earned from the saddle will be put towards more equipment needed for the program which Ben is able to choose off of our wish list.
Eric and Mary Smith - For providing care for the Natural Connection horses as I re-launched the business in 2008
Debbie, Dennis and Julia - For sticking with me through each step of the way as the Natural Connection has grown into the wonderful program it is today
Corey and Sarah - Donation of tack box, chaps, blanket, bit and other miscellaneous items for Kiddo's recovery
Carol - Volunteer hours!THE OFFICIAL PHOTOGRAPHER FOR THE NATURAL CONNECTION! Donation of brushes, hooks, grooming bag, tack trunks, hay nets, buckets, Equimin Mineral blocks, endless donations, her time and moral and physical support each weekend, Carol, your dedication is not going unnoticed...
Janette Reeves - Donation of western saddle, many saddle pads, wraps, stirrups, bell boots and other miscellaneous items for all Natural Connection horses
Cowboy Ben- Volunteer hours, numerous small donations such as bits, snaps, etc. and making a wonderful handmade bit for Amber!
Autumn Ifarraguerri - Horse treats, fly spray and always thinking of our babies
Laura Knight - boots, girths, other nick nacks that we can use!
Kathey Tonnacliff - Multiple items of horse tack including saddle pads and other necessities
Cathy Suddarth - Blankets for winter time
Cheryl Watson - Volunteer hours
Cheryl Porcelli - Numerous donation tack items including saddle pads and cushions
My daughter, Katarina - For loving her mommy even if mommy is "horse crazy," and for showing mommy that the Natural Connection is a great family activity as well
My horses - For allowing me to learn their language, love them, work with them and encourage me to always treat them with respect and love...and ultimately, enabling me to share our special communication skills with our students
Fareed Miran - For letting Barney and I come back home to Miran Farm, and allowing the Natural Connection to move and grow at this great facility...And years down the road, we must thank you again for being so open-minded and willing to have a non-traditional program exist in peace at a traditional facility...
Lancet Boyer - Monitary donations to help purchase fly sprays, ear covers and anything else to keep the babies comfortable during the bug season, volunteer hours
Kelly Smith-Moore - Countless volunteer hours, showing up at 7:45am to help Ms. Jean feed on Fridays, regardless of weather...what a trooper and a great help.
Liberty Seaford - Bits, tack trunk and other miscellaneous items that are very helpful to the program.
Carol Biang and Cowboy Ben - Carol and Ben were amazingly grateful after the 2 huge snow storms in February of 2010. Shortly afterwards, they provided Miss Jean with an amazing gift of brand new all terrain tires, that would allow Miss Jean to get to and from the barn safely to be sure all horses would be cared for. Thank you so much for this amazing donation and we will use these tires for many winters to come!
Cowboy Ben - Western saddle donated to the program at a tack swap! The money earned from the saddle will be put towards more equipment needed for the program which Ben is able to choose off of our wish list.
Eric and Mary Smith - For providing care for the Natural Connection horses as I re-launched the business in 2008
Debbie, Dennis and Julia - For sticking with me through each step of the way as the Natural Connection has grown into the wonderful program it is today
Corey and Sarah - Donation of tack box, chaps, blanket, bit and other miscellaneous items for Kiddo's recovery
Carol - Volunteer hours!THE OFFICIAL PHOTOGRAPHER FOR THE NATURAL CONNECTION! Donation of brushes, hooks, grooming bag, tack trunks, hay nets, buckets, Equimin Mineral blocks, endless donations, her time and moral and physical support each weekend, Carol, your dedication is not going unnoticed...
Janette Reeves - Donation of western saddle, many saddle pads, wraps, stirrups, bell boots and other miscellaneous items for all Natural Connection horses
Cowboy Ben- Volunteer hours, numerous small donations such as bits, snaps, etc. and making a wonderful handmade bit for Amber!
Autumn Ifarraguerri - Horse treats, fly spray and always thinking of our babies
Laura Knight - boots, girths, other nick nacks that we can use!
Kathey Tonnacliff - Multiple items of horse tack including saddle pads and other necessities
Cathy Suddarth - Blankets for winter time
Cheryl Watson - Volunteer hours
Cheryl Porcelli - Numerous donation tack items including saddle pads and cushions
My daughter, Katarina - For loving her mommy even if mommy is "horse crazy," and for showing mommy that the Natural Connection is a great family activity as well
My horses - For allowing me to learn their language, love them, work with them and encourage me to always treat them with respect and love...and ultimately, enabling me to share our special communication skills with our students